Seduction II: 10 Ways That Men Can Learn to Turn Their Women on

Women can be a little more complicated than men, yet it’s still the simplest things that make us desire you. For some men it just comes natural. Those are men that tend to be viewed as a "ladies man." The one unique quality they have is the ability to make EVERY woman feel special, and it takes an attentive man to recognize what means the most to his particular woman. That is actually any man’s ticket to the heart of his woman……To make her always feel special. Learning to make your woman feel special, will certainly help to stimulate her. Here are 10 ways to help you do just that.

   1.   Make Her Feel SPECIAL

Always make sure that your woman feels like she’s the most special woman in the world. When you’re out at a social gathering, make eye contact often. Let her know with your gaze that out of all the people in the room, she belongs to you. When you’re walking side by side, grab her hand sometimes, when you’re in the car together, peak over at her and lay your hand on her thigh for a minute. These things can give us a sense of comfort that we still have your heart.

   2.   Show Real Interest

Always show real interest in what your woman is doing. Be a great listener and her best support system. You will actually learn a lot about what she needs from you, by listening to her with real interest.

   3.   Touch her
    
Women love to be touched by their man. When you kiss your woman, touch her face. Come up behind her randomly and hug her from behind. If you run into her out in public, grab her and give her a big bear hug, and watch her smile for days. Try to always be attentive and affectionate. But here’s a link to some more intimate touches. Check it out: http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip/32b_love_tip.html 

   4.   Do it, Just Because

Do the dishes for her, just because. Run her bath water for her, just because. Take her car to get it serviced, just because. You don’t need a reason to take over her chores once in a while, and that is a great way to show your woman that you care, non-verbally. Always remember the old adage “Actions speak louder than words”.

   5.   Be the Leader

Many women have to work and take care of their families and home too. They have a lot on their plates, and have to be in control most of the time, so it’s nice to relinquish some of that control when their man is around. It gives them a bit of relief to know that they, and their children, are in good hands and well protected.

   6.   Wear Cologne

Wearing cologne is one of the easiest aphrodisiacs that you can use. We love a good smelling man. Some of the best smelling colognes (panty droppers) out there are:

·         ‘Creed’ Virgin Island Water

·         ‘Yves Saint Laurent’ L’Homme

·         ‘Tom Ford’s’ Neroli Portofino

·         ‘Versace’ Man

·         ‘Chanel’ Bleu

   7.   Kissing

We love kisses! The little pecks on the cheek, on the forehead, on the lips……Just Kiss Us! Another one of the easiest things that men can do to show affection, is to kiss us every-day before we part, and every-night when we meet back up. You might as well throw a hug in there too. Even if we are asleep when you leave the house, never forget to kiss us. Don’t worry about waking us up, we will usually fall back to sleep, with pleasure.

   8.   Bathe Her

Whether you’re taking a bath with her, or washing her back from the side of the tub, bathe your woman. Washing her hair is also quite romantic. If you want to make it an extra special night, run her bath water with a nicely scented bubble bath, have scented candles burning all around the tub or bathroom. If there’s enough candlelight, leave the lights turned off. Maybe even throw some rose petals in the bathwater, and have a bottle of wine waiting on the side of the tub. You can join her, or let her relax alone, but don’t forget to tell her to let you know when she needs you to wash her back.

   9.   Massages

Taking the time to give us a massage, shows attentiveness, patience, and caring. Those things can mean more to us than the massage itself. Here’s a link to some pointers: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a4211/sensual-massage/

  10.  Compliment Her

Never forget to compliment her. A lot of women get complimented all the time by other men, but for some reason it seems like the man that it would mean the most from, doesn’t seem to see what other men see. The first thing many of us think of when we get complimented is our man, and the fact that he didn’t notice. The thought is usually fleeting, but it’s there. When you know that she put extra effort into looking good for whatever reason, compliment her. When she accomplishes something that’s important to her, compliment her. When she does something that makes you proud, let her know. Whenever you think about how lucky you are, just out of the blue, call her up and let her know. We really appreciate this type of thoughtfulness and attentiveness.

These things will make us want to do whatever we can to please you, and that includes in the bedroom. When we are happy and treated well by our men, we like pleasing you. Guys, this can give you more leverage to get what you want, more than anything. Just remember to treat us like the Queens that we should be seen as (you wouldn’t marry or commit to anything less, would you?), and we will gladly treat you like the Kings that you are.

“What will seduce a person is the effort we expend on their behalf, showing how much we care, how much they are worth.

Leaving things to chance is a recipe for disaster, and reveals that we do not take love and romance very seriously (Greene, 2001).”

~The Art of Seduction~

References

Barker, E. (February 15, 2013). 7 Spots your guy should touch (but doesn’t). Cosmopolitan.

            Retrieved from http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a4211/sensual- massage/

Greene, R. (2001). The art of seduction. New York, NY: Penguin Books.

Strovny, D. (2015). Top ten female erogenous zones. Ask Men.

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